It is a tricky process when you are trying to figure out the perfect size for your wedding, and writing a guest list is often the first stage towards making a decision. Many factors will affect your decision, including the budget you are working with, the style of your wedding and the number of friends and family members you want to invite. You want your wedding to be a very special day, so spending time to way up the benefits and drawbacks to a big or small wedding is an important step.
Benefits and drawbacks to a big wedding
Here are some key points to consider about big weddings:
Benefits
- Preparing guest list is much easier. You can keep all your aunts and uncles happy with less chance of offending people (although that is still possible, even with a big wedding).
- Gifts will be plentiful. The more guests invited to your wedding, the more potential you have for gifts.
- A more lively atmosphere. Having a big wedding help create a livelier atmosphere and more people dancing.
Drawbacks
- More expensive. This goes without saying. A big wedding means more money spent on décor, catering, drinking, and any party favors.
- More planning. There is a lot more planning that comes with a organizing big wedding. If you don’t have the time, then you will need to hire a wedding planner, which is another additional cost.
- Less time for your spouse. A bigger wedding means you will spend more time with more people which lessens the time you will get to spend with your new spouse and those who are closest to you.
Benefits and drawbacks to a small wedding
Here are some key considerations to take into account when opting for a small wedding:
Benefits
- Potentially less stress and planning. It is less stressful to organize a smaller wedding.
- Cheaper. You won’t have to provide refreshments and meals for so many people.
- Money left over for treats – By having a smaller wedding you will have additional money to splurge on other areas of the wedding such as adding elaborate flowers, the best photographer, or a top band that can make your reception even better.
- More relaxing. You can spend more time with your family and new spouse if your guest list is smaller, making it more relaxing.
Drawbacks
- Fewer people. Some of your favorite people still might not make it on the list. You may also end up offending some people who feel snubbed.
- Less dancing. This might not always be true, depending on your friends and family, but generally small weddings are more subdued and calm.
- Fewer wedding gifts. You will receive fewer wedding gifts.
